Getting Married at St Luke's
Whether you are dreaming of a traditional church wedding, a simple and meaningful ceremony, or a joyful celebration with family and friends, we would be delighted to explore this journey with you.
A church wedding is more than a beautiful occasionIt is a moment to make lifelong promises in the presence of God and those you love, surrounded by prayer, music, and the enduring beauty of a sacred space.
You do not need to be a regular churchgoer to enquire about getting married here. Many couples come with different backgrounds, experiences, and questions, and you will be welcomed with kindness and openness. We are here to help you shape a service that feels meaningful and authentic to you both.
St Luke’s offers a beautiful and prayerful setting for weddings, with space for quiet reflection, celebration, and memorable photographs. We will guide you through the practical steps, support you in preparing for marriage, and help make the day as relaxed and joyful as possible.
If you are considering a wedding at St Luke’s, we would love to hear from you. For further information, please Contact Us
Common Questions
Can anyone get married at St Luke’s?
A couple can usually marry in a Church of England church if both are at least 18, neither is already married or in a civil partnership that has not legally ended, and they can show a qualifying connection to the church or parish.
This connection may include living in the parish, worshipping regularly at the church, being baptised or confirmed there, or having family connections with the church.
If you are unsure whether you qualify to marry at St Luke’s, please do get in touch. We will be very happy to help you explore the possibilities. You can also check whether you live within the parish area of St Luke’s.
Do we need to be regular churchgoers?
No. Many couples who enquire about marriage at church are not regular worshippers. You are warmly welcome to begin the conversation wherever you are in your faith or life journey.
Can we choose hymns, readings, and music?
Yes. We will help you choose music, hymns, Bible readings, and prayers that reflect your relationship and the character of your wedding service.
Can friends or family take part in the service?
Often, yes. Family and friends may be able to do readings or prayers during the service. We can discuss what feels appropriate and meaningful for you.
How much does a church wedding cost?
The Church of England sets national legal fees for weddings, which cover the service, legal paperwork, and basic church costs.
for example, the figure for marrying as of January 2026 breaks down as follows:
If you marry in the parish where you both live (£605):
- Marriage service in church: £566
- Publication of banns of marriage: £39
If one of you lives in another parish (£664):
- Marriage service in church: £566
- Publication of banns of marriage (in parish you are being married in): £39
- Publication of banns of marriage (in a different parish than the one in which one of you lives): £39
- Certificate of banns from the other parish: £20
Can we have a blessing if we are already married legally?
Yes. If you are already married through a civil ceremony, you may still wish to have a service of thanksgiving and blessing in church.
Can divorced people get married in church?
In many cases, yes. The Church of England recognises that life can be complex, and we are always happy to have a conversation in a sensitive and compassionate way.
How far in advance should we book?
It is best to contact us as early as possible, especially if you have a particular date in mind. However, it is always worth asking, even if your wedding is sooner than expected.
Can same-sex couples celebrate their relationship at St Luke’s?
Yes. We warmly welcome same-sex couples at St Luke’s and would be very happy to talk with you about how we can celebrate and pray for your relationship.
At present, the Church of England does not permit clergy to conduct same-sex marriages in church. However, following a civil marriage or civil partnership, we are able to offer services of prayer and thanksgiving, including the Prayers of Love and Faith authorised by the Church of England.
We believe every person is made in the image of God and deserves to be treated with dignity, care, and love. If you would like to explore what may be possible at St Luke’s, please do get in touch with us.
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