Funerals at St Luke’s
Losing someone you love can be deeply painful and overwhelming. At St Luke’s, we are here to support you with kindness, prayer, and care as you make arrangements and remember the life of the person who has died. Many people arranging a funeral have never done so before, and it can feel difficult to know where to begin. The clergy, together with your funeral director, will help guide you step by step through the practical decisions and the planning of the service.
You can also find practical information and helpful advice on the Church of England website: Arranging a Funeral
Common Questions
Who can have a funeral at St Luke’s?
Funerals at St Luke’s are usually for those who lived in the parish area, worshipped here, or have a connection with the church or local community. If you are unsure, please get in touch — we will always do our best to help and advise you.
Does the funeral have to take place in church?
A traditional church funeral usually begins with a service in church, followed by a cremation or burial at the cemetery. Church of England funerals may also take place at a crematorium, cemetery chapel, or graveside, depending on the wishes and circumstances of the family.
Do we need to be regular churchgoers?
No. A Church of England funeral is available to everyone in the parish, whether or not they regularly attend church.
Can the service be personal?
Yes. Families are welcome to choose hymns, music, flowers, tributes, photographs, and readings that reflect the life of the person who has died. Family members or friends may also give tributes during the service. Because this is a Christian funeral, the service will include prayers and at least one reading from the Bible, as we commend the person into God’s loving care. Many families find it helpful that the church offers a structure to hold the service together, especially at a time when making decisions can feel overwhelming.
Can family or friends speak during the service?
Yes. A tribute or eulogy may be shared by family or friends, or read on your behalf by the minister.
What happens at a Church of England funeral?
Every funeral is slightly different, but there is always space to give thanks for the person’s life, to grieve honestly, and to hear words of hope and comfort. Services may include music, hymns, prayers, silence, Bible readings, and a commendation into God’s care.
What support is available afterwards?
Grief does not end with the funeral. The church is here to continue offering prayer, conversation, and support in the weeks and months afterwards.
Each year, St Luke’s holds an All Souls’ Service (formally known as the Commemoration of the Faithful Departed) for anyone wishing to remember and give thanks for loved ones who have died. During the service, names may be read aloud, candles lit, and space offered for quiet reflection and prayer.
All Souls’ Day falls on 2 November, although the date of the service itself may vary depending on the church calendar and availability. Everyone is welcome, whether or not the funeral took place at St Luke’s.
